CARE don't CARRY
STOP DAILY OVERWHELM, STRESS, and EXHAUSTION from becoming your DEFAULT MODE of operating. Learn to protect your precious energy, intuition, and big heart by setting energetic boundaries – guilt-free & for good! That's right. BE FOREVER DONE with emotional overwhelm, toxic people, unresolved conflict, work anxiety & restless sleep SUCKING THE LIFE out of you.
It's possible, even if you're an empath. I did it, and I'll teach you how.
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There is a fine line between caring for others vs carrying
their pain and problems
You and I know this well. We've struggled with drawing
and holding this line our entire lives.
Because of our big hearts, we excel in caretaking, healing, and transformational roles BUT we over-give, over-extend, and over-invest. We assume too much responsibility for other people's problems and take (carry) them home.
THIS LEAVES NO TIME OR ENERGY FOR US & OUR NEEDS!
Many of the unfulfilled professional empaths I work with have trouble:
- saying NO to awful and demanding supervisors, co-workers, work loads, or jobs
- letting down, disappointing, or not being there for clients who need us . . . 24/7
- challenging the insensitive and hurtful things random strangers or loved ones say
- declining unhelpful or judgmental feedback from friends, family, or "experts"
- confronting others about their slack at home or work (instead of picking it up)
- feeling guilty and selfish for "dropping" others to "indulge" in what energizes us
Energetic boundaries are the
Mother of all boundaries. They
tell us why all others are off.
For example, if you're a people pleaser, you're probably worried about hurting or triggering others ESPECIALLY when these people may actually be the ones mistreating or taking advantage of you! You may be carrying THEIR pain in YOUR body because you're intuitive or psychic and have no clue how to organize, let alone contain, energy.
Even if your ego-mind and loved ones say protective things that make sense, you don't trust your feelings to help you set limits because they're intense, and scramble everything up in your head, heart, and body when triggered. You try to talk yourself out of your feelings and beat yourself up when you can't
THERE IS A BETTER WAY, AND IT HAS IMPROVED EVERY ASPECT OF MY LIFE. I now re-guard my emotional sensitivity as my greatest gift and most reliable inner compass, and I can't wait to tell you how I did it.
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I cried at the drop of a hat because I carried a lot. Spent hours fretting about a harsh reprimand or mean look or tone. Preferred to be alone and play in the magical Amazon rainforest that covers 95% of my native Suriname, imagining that I was Mowgli.
After a military coup uprooted my family, we moved to the concrete jungles of Miami. I coped with the loss of my safe sanctuary and my lifeline to my true self during the awkward middle school years by becoming selectively mute, pretending not to speak English. I didn't know how else to hide.
Decades later, my search for healing was sped up by a PhD in clinical psych and shamanic, energy medicine, and Depth Hypnosis training, but I continued to struggle with public speaking terror.
I was most comfortable behind the scenes. Not heard, not seen,
happy as a clam in my small holistic practice . . . playing small & hiding
UNTIL MY BIG SOUL MISSION NO LONGER LET ME GET AWAY WITH IT.
I shared my awakening story in a memoir in 2017, and since then have talked to audiences, big and small, online and in person, on podcasts and radio shows, at conferences, retreats, and book stores.
I've offered my tools to hundreds of professional empaths, soulpreneurs, psychotherapists, and academics in mental health and holistic healing circles. Being able to teach my best energy healing courses online was super exciting: it meant that I could help more unfulfilled empaths deeply value themselves and share their gifts with the world!
What my students say:
"Having a teaching background myself, I can say that the course was designed and structured masterfully."
"I was surprised at how moving this course was. Loraine helped me to go deeper, and clear past energy and blocks that I did not realize were there."
"Most valuable was learning to ground my energy and emotions in a way that organizes them, as well as being able to disperse whatever is not mine. It doesn't always have to be a fight or struggle."
"I have never felt as settled or at peace as I have since I have experienced this course.”
My FREE COURSE is for you if:
- you want to feel worthy, know that you're good enough, and stop the painful self-sabotage
- you want to restore trust in your intuition, emotions, and inner sense of divine alignment
- you want to get clear on who or what to keep in and who or what to keep out of your life–without added outside pressure!
- you want to learn about and fully grasp the difference between being co-dependent vs interdependent
- you want to reserve your precious energy and natural genius (your sensitivity!) for people and projects related to your soul purpose
It took daily practice to trust myself again.
starting with the most basic, low-stakes YES-NO decisions
that you alone can make.